Happy Mother's Day! Not only is Mother's Day just for Moms, but it's a time to think about birthmothers and those hoping to me Moms.
Mother's Day is difficult for many women. Maybe their own mother has passed away or the relationship is strained. Maybe they can't be with their own children this holiday. Maybe you are a woman who gave up a baby for adoption and are missing that child more than ever this day. Whatever the case it, Mother's Day isn't always a happy celebrated day for a variety of reasons.
I remember many a Mother's Day I wish I could have slept through. Sure I had my Mom, mother in law, grandmas and sister who were celebrating, but the years when I wanted kids and didn't have any were painful. Going to restaurants and getting wished Happy Mother's Day by well meaning staff. Just smiling and nodding, I had a husband and was certainly old enough to have kids. My sister would let my niece buy me something since I am her Godmother. It's not the same. There was an emptiness that was was indescribable.
I am so thankful for my two miracles who have made my life complete. One miracle who grew in my womb, the other miracle who grew in my heart. God had a plan for me and I would have to wait a bit to be a Mom-it was well worth it!
Think of other women who may be in difficult situations today. Maybe call a friend whose having a rough day or stop by a visit a neighbor whose kids live far away. Remember Moms are a gift, as are children-never take them for granted.
